Out of the Box

This chalk drawing was done at Knotts Berry Farm in late 1973 or early 1974.

That's my former fiance Paul Gutierrez and me.  He was 22 and I was 19 at the time.

I heard he was killed in a car accident several years after we broke up.

You know how "they" say that you should throw out a box of stuff you haven't looked inside for 5 years or more?  I think that would be a big mistake.  Just look what I would have missed out on!

2 Apr 1977: This picture of my 22-year-old face was made from hundreds of little

typed letters, numbers, and symbols.  I got it during a Las Vegas trip with my best buddy, Peggi.

Back in September 2010, a few months after Ed and I got married, we had a big yard sale.  Besides selling a lot of duplicate furniture from our merged lives, we cleaned out the rafters of one of the sheds on our property and pulled down several boxes I hadn't seen in more than a decade.  What a blast from the past that was!

I made these two little pillows in 1970 or 1971. I had two little neighbor children

in Fresno, California--Murray Anne Border and Louis Apsey--draw pictures for me,

which I then embroidered onto the pillows.  Sure brings back memories!

Funny to think those two little kids are in their 40s now!

I found a lot of funky old clothes I used to wear in the 1980s.  Most of them I trashed, but I hung a few back in my closet because they had so many memories attached to them.  When I lose some weight and can fit in them again, I may model them and share them on my blog!

My old Seminary binder, circa 1968-1972.  The old worksheets inside

didn't trigger too many flashbacks, probably because in California

we had early morning Seminary (aka "Cemetery") at 6:30 a.m.

and I am NOT a morning person (aka "brain dead"). 

But it was fun seeing all the things I'd scribbled on the outside of the binder,

like "Carl + Mary" or "Mary loves Joe."  Oh, the memories--ouch!

So my recommendation is, go ahead, open that box and enjoy!

Beehives Are Beautiful!

18 Jan 2012: Beehives are beautiful!

Since July, I've had the pleasure of working with the 12- and 13-year-old girls in our church youth group.  They are called Beehives, and they are beautiful young ladies.

Two weeks ago, one of our Beehives--who has been taking Karate lessons for years--volunteered to teach some karate moves to the rest of the group.  Wow, did they have a great time.

It really came to life after the camera came out!  At their insistence, I took at least 50 shots of the girls as they showed off their best moves and worked hard to be caught on-camera with gravity-defying leaps.  They did an awesome job!

The High School Musical pose.

Oh, to have all that youthful energy again!

Timing Is Everything

The boys' bedroom-turned-den.  Well, almost.

I haven't played the piano in years.  Even when I did, I didn't sight-read very well.  I never took lessons, but I taught myself to play well enough that I memorized many songs and hymns.  Even Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata.  I'm not sure I can play anything anymore, though, after  more than 22 years without a piano in my home.

Getting it onto the porch was a big job!

Over the years we were offered a couple of pianos, including the one I learned to play on in my teens.  There was never enough room in our tiny--I mean, cozy--little house, so I always had to say regretfully, "No, thanks."  My mother did give us an electric piano a few years before she passed away, and my children used it a lot, but for me it just didn't have the same beautiful sound and feel as a real piano.

Evan, Dylan, Derek, and Chris move it carefully through the kitchen.

And so I resigned myself to never owning a piano.  Until a few weeks ago, when my son-in-law Chris told me his sister was getting rid of the piano that originally belonged to his maternal grandmother, and asked me if we wanted it.  My first thought was the usual, "There's no room for it in my house."

Almost there!

Then I remembered: Jacob is on his mission in California, Sarah got married and moved out, and a month ago we began moving Dylan out of his bedroom and into Sarah's old room so we could turn his and Jacob's old bedroom into a den.  All of a sudden I have wall space!

So I said gratefully, "Yes, we'll take it!" Last Saturday Ed lined up a bunch of friends to help us move it in, right to the place I'd cleared for it.

28 Jan 2012: Our new piano in our soon-to-be den!

Chris's grandmother used to give piano lessons on this piano.

(The quilted bench cover was her creation.)  Then the piano was passed on

to Chris's mom, and then to Chris's younger sister Lori, and then, finally, to us!

Both the new den and Dylan's new bedroom are a mess as we've been making the exchange of furniture and other items.  The den needs a new paint job badly, and eventually we'll be looking to buy a couch, cheap.  I haven't had the energy or the time to tackle it all at once, but little by little I expect we'll have both rooms all done and organized by Spring Break.

As for the piano, no, my fingers simply don't work the way they used to.  It will take a lot of practice, if I can fit it into my schedule.  What is truly awesome is the fact that my husband plays the piano!  I didn't even know that fact about him until we'd been married for almost 2 months.  He took many years of piano lessons as a child and, although he's a bit rusty, he still sight-reads music very well.  He's looking forward to brushing up his skills.

And I'm looking forward to a home filled with beautiful music!

2012

Wow.  Four weeks into 2012 and I haven't even written one blog post about the new year yet.  It's been a hectic four weeks.  I hope that isn't an indication of how this entire year will go.

2012 started out well.  As seen in my last post, we spent a fun New Year's Eve Day with family, celebrating a belated Christmas together.  Then around 6:00 that evening Dylan, Ed, and I checked into our hotel room.

We got a nice suite of rooms at Springhill Suites in Chandler, just south of west Mesa.  ($50 through priceline.com, which I thought was a good price for a last-minute room on New Year's Eve.) 

My only complaint would be that the bed was not very comfortable.  It was much too soft, causing Ed to roll toward the middle and me to cling to the edge!

We didn't spend too much time there, though.  After about an hour, we went to Carl's Jr. for dinner.  That's my favorite fast-food restaurant, which has no franchises in the White Mountains, so it's a real treat for me when we visit Mesa.  I love their Super Star burger served as a low-carb lettuce-wrap. 

Dylan makes a figure eight with his sparkler.

After dinner, we went to my sister Karla's house to see in the New Year with her family and ours.  After 31 years in Arizona under strict NO FIREWORKS laws, the laws have finally been relaxed a bit, and our kids got to enjoy the sparklers like we used to love as kids in California of the 1960s and 70s. 

Jaycee carefully tries out her sparkler.

Dylan and his sparkler.

Analyce, Chris, Dylan, Sarah, and Celesta in the smoky aftermath.

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Karla's son-in-law Scott bought up all the legal fireworks on the market and put on quite an exciting show for us in the driveway.  So did several of Karla's neighbors (in their own yards).  It was a blast!

So we've survived the first month of 2012.  To hear some tell it, we'd better make the most of this year since the Mayan calendar supposedly predicts the world is doomed to end on December 21, 2012.  What do you think?  Personally, I think there is only so much room to carve dates on a rock!

The Mayans did an incredible job of calendaring 5,126 years of astronomical events(beginning in 3114 BC), and their "13th cycle" will indeed end on December 21, 2012 (which may be off by 60 days to 100 years, depending upon which "expert" you listen to).  Still, as brilliant as they were, the Mayans were mere humans working with limited space!

Nonetheless, I intend to make the most of 2012...just in case!  It will be a year of great things.  It will be Chris and Sarah's first full year as a married couple, celebrating their first anniversay on July 30th.  Dylan will start high school as a freshman in August, meaning I'll get to have one of my children at my school again for the next 4 years (I've missed that.)  Jacob will return from his mission in California in November, just a little over 9 months away!  And after Jacob returns home, the greatest event of all will happen: Ed and I will go to the temple to be sealed for eternity to Sarah, Jacob, and Dylan.  I have looked forward to that day for many, many years.

I wish a wonderful 2012 to you and yours, too, filled with the most wonderful blessings you can imagine!  

Christmas on New Years Eve

Last weekend, on the afternoon of New year's Eve, our extended family gathered in Mesa for our annual family Christmas party.  As always, we enjoyed several fun hours together and made great memories.

Here are some pictures from that day, starting with the posed family shots:

31 Dec 2011: My dad Myron (age 77) and my step-mom Kathy (age 67)

with Kathy's grandson Aiden (6 months old)
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31 Dec 2011: Our parents' 3 oldest children: Karla (age 51), Mary (age 57),

and LeRoy (age 52).  Our two younger brothers were unable to attend.

Jeff (age 50) was recently in the hospital with a painful kidney stone,

and Darryl (age 48) lives in Missouri.  He visited us in July, though.
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My family: Dylan (age 14), me (Mary), and my husband Ed.

My older son, Jacob (age 20), is still serving his mission in northern California. 
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My daughter Sarah (age 22) and her new husband Chris (age 33).

You may notice a few sweaty bodies and ruffled hair.  These pictures were taken

at the end of the day, after the men and most of the teens had spent hours playing

basketball and football.
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My brother LeRoy with his wife Lori and their two children,

Nate (age 15) and Katie (age 13).
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My sister Karla with her 5 youngest children (out of 10 kids altogether):

Brianna (age 20), Julien (age 14), Gabrielle (age 11),

Addison (age 7), and Mariah (age 17)
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Karla's #1 child, Jeremy (age 29), with his wife Cami and their children,

Jaren (age 3), Makayla (age 2), and Analyce (age 5)
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Karla's #2 child, Genevieve (age 27) with her husband Scott and their children,

Max (21 months old), Jaycee (age 4), and Brooke (age 6)
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Karla's #3 child, Josh (age 25), was not able to attend. 

Karla's #4 child, Elyssa (age 24), with her husband Ross 
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Karla's #5 child, Celesta (age 23) with her current beau, Joseph 
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Karla's #7 child, Mariah (age 17, also seen in Karla's group photo above)

with her current Beau, Hector
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My step-sister Becky with her husband Dylan and their children,

Dale (age 3) and Aiden (6 months old)
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That's all the family who were in attendance.  We sorely missed Jeff and Darryl's families!

And now here are the candid shots from the party:

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Karla cuts up both 6-foot sub sandwiches.

With 36 people at the party, we all provided plenty of food!
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Ed and Ross visit over sandwiches, chips, and salads.
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Lori, LeRoy, and Nate enjoy lunch together.
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Jeremy and Cami soak up a child-free moment together.
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Celesta and Joseph bond over the sub sanwiches.
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Hector and Mariah enjoy a moment.
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Sarah spends time with the two men in her life, husband Chris and brother Dylan.
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Scott has fun with his daughter Jaycee.
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Scott and Genevieve's 21-month-old son, Max
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Jeremy and Cami's daughter, 2-year-old Makayla.

She'll always be Great-Aunt Mary's Elf-baby!

 The family gathers in a circle and the gift exchange begins. 

Makayla chooses a gift from the children's pile.

 Genevieve chooses a gift carefully from the adults' pile of presents.

 LeRoy weighs his options before deciding to steal the game Cami had chosen!

 Karla is happy with her new windshield washer!

 At the end of the evening, several of the men break out the toy helicopters

they'd received for Christmas.  Ed has a great time trying it out.

Jeremy (a real-life rescue helicopter pilot), Hector, and Chris

also have fun with the 'copters.

We all had a blast!  We hope next year to see the faces we missed this time.  Until next Christmas...