Thursday, September 6, 2018

At the Edge of the World

Sept 3, 2018: Sarah, Antonio, and Jacob sit at the brink of the Mogollon Rim.

As I said in my last post, my birthday celebration lasted the entire Labor Day weekend, with three full days to enjoy family, good food, and great times. It didn't end until Monday night, when Jacob and his friend Antonio, plus Karla and her family, sped away back to Mesa after dark.

Sarah finds a seat a little further down the cliff face.

While Karla was having fun showing her husband, Steve, the wonders of the White Mountains, Jacob was doing the same for Antonio, who had also never been in this part of the world before. They drove up on the highway through Globe-Miami so Antonio could see the stark beauty of Salt River Canyon, and Salt River at the bottom. Jacob told me he also wanted to show him Woods Canyon Lake, which is located off of a different highway in a different direction, on the way back to Mesa via the town of Payson.

Mark, Antonio, and Jacob enjoy the view while we wait for Karla's family.

Woods Canyon Lake is only about an hour and fifteen minutes away from my house, so I suggested that Sarah and I (everyone else had to work) take my car and drive with them to the lake on Monday. We could show Antonio the breathtaking view from the edge of the Mogollon Rim and have a picnic lunch at the lake before they continued on their way to Mesa, with only two hours remaining of their homeward trip. Then we would turn around and go back home after saying our goodbyes. The guys thought that sounded like a good plan.

Sarah near the edge of the Mogollon Rim.

We told Karla about our plan when they came for dinner on Sunday. On Monday morning, she texted me, asking when we planned to leave for Woods Canyon Lake. Maybe we could all meet up there? However, our plans were mismatched, with Jacob planning to leave around 10:00, and Steve and Karla planning to wait until 5:00 or later, when the heavy traffic leaving our resort area was finally thinning out. And, believe me, the traffic heading out of town all day Monday was horrendous, with up to two miles of stop-and-go congestion at times.

I think these formations are among the most beautiful in the world.

Jacob decided to adjust his plans so we could all go to Woods Canyon together for a final family gathering. That gave him and Antonio time to walk around nearby Woodland Lake and see a little more of our area. It also meant Mark could go with us, because he had gotten off work by the time we left. Sadly, both Dylan and Chris were working until 9:00 p.m. on Monday, so they still couldn't join us.

You can't see from this height how extremely steep the highway is below.

Meanwhile, Steve and Karla went to visit our dad and Kathy around 1:00, while Gabby and Addison went four-wheeling with their hosts in Snowflake. Karla planned to drive back to Snowflake to pick up the girls (a thirty-minute drive) and head to Woods Canyon Lake from there, hopefully by around 4:30. They had even packed their car, all ready to go, but you know how it is when you say those long goodbyes to people you care about.

Antonio captured this shot of storm clouds in the distance.

As it turned out, Steve and Karla didn't leave Dad's house until after 4:00, and by the time they left Snowflake it was about 5:15. Meanwhile, we'd left my house at 4:30 and reached the Rim overlook around 5:40. We didn't mind waiting there for them, because it's a beautiful and peaceful place, one of those environments where you could sit quietly for hours and just soak in the calming spirit. Mostly, though, I worried about the approaching dusk and how much time we'd have to enjoy the view and eat our picnic dinner before full darkness fell.

Steve nervously watches as Gabby and Addison approach the edge.
Notice the clouds floating in the distance, in the air below us.

It was 6:25 when Karla's group finally pulled into the parking area at Military Sinkhole Vista point. We spent only about fifteen minutes together at the Rim's edge, which was breathtaking but caused both Steve and Karla a great deal of anxiety, watching Gabby and Addison venture to the very brink of drops as much as six hundred feet down. I admit I was mildly nervous about Jacob and Sarah, as well, but I know them to be fairly cautious adults now, so it wasn't quite as bad for me. (Although it was a very different story when we used to come here when my children were small. I never let go of their hands in those days!)

Gabby sits while Addison takes pictures, but soon they were both on the edge.

Not that the danger isn't real. It doesn't happen often, but occasionally a hiker gets too close, loses footing, and falls. In 2015, a man and his blind dog both fell to their deaths. Another hiker fell and died in 2013, while his fiance watched helplessly. During our short visit, I found two "In Memory Of" plaques on trees near the ledge. All it takes is a moment of careless bravado.

I love these two photos together. A natural married couple moment...

...and then the posed shot, all smiles! (No, they weren't arguing in the other pic.)

At 6:40, we got back in our cars and drove an additional couple of miles (about five minutes) to the edge of Woods Canyon Lake. Dusk was definitely upon us by now. Along the way, we got the treat of seeing a small herd of young elk grazing at the side of the road. That's not an unusual sight around Woods Canyon Lake, and all three of our cars pulled over to enjoy the moment.

I jumped out of my car to get a picture of this young bull elk.

Thankfully, my camera kept getting decent photos despite the lessening light. You might think that it was still bright out, based on these pictures, but dusk really was falling fast. We spent only forty-five minutes by the lake, but by the time we drove away, it was fully dark out.

As dusk fell, the boats were coming in and the lakeside was clearing.

Once we had parked in the lot just above the lake, at 6:50, several of our group rushed to use the nasty, smelly outhouses near the little market. While they did that, I walked along the edge of the lot, taking pictures and scouting for a suitable picnic site. The portion of the day-use area with picnic tables had already closed, so instead I found a big, flat boulder right at the water's edge that we could all fit on. Not as comfortable as a table, but much closer to the lovely water view.

We found this empty, flat boulder to picnic on at the water's edge.

There were two paths down to the boulder, both no more than ten inches wide, quite steep, and overgrown with plants that like to grab your clothes as you pass. Karla saw something big and black race across the right-hand path, so she opted to use the path on the left. I'd have gone that route, too, when I was younger, but it was rockier and required deeper steps than my knees could manage while moving downward. Climbing back out later, though, Karla's path worked well for me. Walking downhill puts much greater pressure on the knees than most people realize.

Getting settled with our supplies on our chosen "picnic boulder."

So I took the right-hand path, which was smoother but slicker with small pebbles and twigs. I made Mark go ahead of me. That way I'd have something soft to fall on if I slipped and knocked him down! We made it safely, though, and encountered no scary wildlife along the way.

This is a blurry shot, but it's a good view of our picnic boulder.

Other than the difficulty in getting these old knees to bend so I could sit on the hard rock-top (and even worse, getting up again when we were done), the boulder was a good choice. The water and the air were peaceful and still. Every sound seemed hushed and yet echo-ish at the same time. Fish were leaping out of the water not far away. Only one other family was at the lake's edge by now, calling to their dogs as they prepared to leave.

Jacob, Mark, Sarah, Mary, Karla, Gabby, Steve, and Addison atop
our picnic boulder at the edge of the lake. Photo by Antonio.

Sarah and Jacob had made a big bowl of chicken salad for the picnic lunch we'd anticipated earlier in the day. Shredded chicken meat blended with green onion, celery, tomato, olives, spices, and mayonnaise, wrapped in tortillas and served with two types of chips. Everyone proclaimed it was delicious, and I was thrilled that we had an empty bowl by the end of the meal. It was way too much for just the four of us at lunch, so I was glad we'd waited until we were all together. Besides, I already had a refrigerator crowded with leftovers from the long weekend, with just Mark and me around to eat. I didn't need more!

We shared a picnic lunch of chicken-salad wraps and potato chips.
Sarah, Karla, Gabrielle, and Steve.

It was almost 7:30 by the time we'd finished eating, cleared away our trash, and prepared to hike back up to our cars. The thick greenery on the hill between us and the parking lot was so dark that it was intimidating (I used my flash to get the final image below). We managed to hike out safely, thanks to the magic of our glowing cell phones!

Looking out over Woods Canyon Lake as the sky darkens.

Then we parted ways, with Jacob's and Karla's cars turning right at the highway to continue west toward Payson and then south to Mesa, while my car turned east (left) to return home. We got back at 8:45, just in time for Sarah to pick up Chris from work. Karla texted me at 9:51 that they'd reached home safely. Jacob and Antonio followed them the whole way home, so they'd reached Mesa safely, too.

What more could I have asked for in a long birthday weekend? Well, maybe the blessing of having our entire extended family all together, which rarely happens anymore as our family keeps expanding. Meanwhile, until that day comes, this was a wonderful, feel-good weekend, and I'm so grateful for every moment we spent together!

Our narrow path back to the parking area was up this darkening hill.

Tuesday, September 4, 2018

Birthday Weekend

Sept 2, 2018: Me and my sister, Karla, the day after my 64th birthday.

For roughly half of my 64 years of life, my Sept 1st birthday has fallen on Labor Day weekend. This year, it fell on Saturday, giving me a full three days to celebrate with family, food, and fun times!

Jacob drove up from Mesa on Friday, so I got to enjoy my special day with all of my children. He brought with him his newest roommate, Antonio, who used to be one of Jacob's roommates in Utah and recently decided to check out life in Arizona.

Other than requesting that Jacob make some of his delicious green-chili-and-chicken enchiladas for my birthday dinner, I had planned a weekend of quick and simple meals. Then Jacob sent me a text outlining all the dishes he'd been telling Antonio about, and asking if we could have those meals while they were here. Change of plans...

Thus, after Jacob's arrival on Friday, we went shopping to provide for feeding all eight of us for four days, including frequent snacks. Walking through Walmart, we placed our bets on what the total cost of the groceries would be. I predicted $200. Antonio predicted $150, so Jacob countered with $151 ("Are we on Price is Right?" I asked). When we checked out--ka-ching!--the bill was $197 and some change. I'm still not sure if that means I won...or lost.

So Friday night's dinner was chili-cheese meatloaf, accompanied by asparagus with chipotle aioli and a big green salad that Sarah put together for us. Everyone came over for dinner and we had a great family visit. The kids played some Skip-Bo and then we finished up with a big chocolate cake that Jacob said he was craving. It was waaaaaaaay too sweet!

This year's birthday cards.

Then came Saturday. I had to get up at 5:30, as I do every Saturday, to drive Mark to work. I spent a large part of my birthday morning washing up all the dishes from the previous night's meal. But then Sarah came over and got breakfast started. Jacob joined her in helping to finish it up. Our Saturday breakfast consisted of scrambled eggs mixed into fried potatoes (if you've never tried them fried in the pan together, I highly recommend it). We also had fresh sausage links on the side.

After breakfast, Jacob prepared and baked the homemade cheesecake for my party later that evening, which was a nice change since I usually bake my own birthday cheesecakes! Dylan came over for lunch and a visit on his lunch hour, around 11:00.

We didn't get to have everyone together throughout the day, since Dylan, Jake, and Mark were all scheduled to work, but since everyone would be off work by 4:00, we knew we had the rest of the day to look forward to.

Jacob and Antonio went out to explore the area during the afternoon, but they returned in plenty of time for Jacob to prep two-and-a-half pans of his yummy chicken enchiladas and get them into the oven. While he worked on that, Sarah and I made another run to Walmart to get supplies for the side dishes: Spanish rice and refried beans with melty cheese on top.

It was 6:30 when Jacob presented us with the completed three-course meal, and we were all happy to dig in!

My gifts and cards await me after dinner.

After dinner, Mark and I got the homemade ice cream going in the ice cream freezer, and then it was time to open presents. It's always fun to see what my kids come up with. Admittedly, I am difficult to buy for. I'm at that age where I already have pretty much everything I want, and I can afford to get those things for myself, so why wait until a birthday or Christmas? 

However, over the years, I have made suggestions. First of all, never buy me appliances, Walmart gift cards, or clothes. I'm hard-to-fit, so I prefer to choose my own clothing. And I'm not against gift cards, just choose something specific. I'm always happy to get gift cards for movie theaters and restaurants, two of my favorite pastimes. Simple, inexpensive jewelry that's chosen with me in mind always touches my heart. Knickknacks can be tricky, because that involves finding space for them and then extra time spent dusting when I clean. However, there are some items I can always find room for. They know my interests include fantasy/magic (think Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter) and the black-bear decor in my living room.

Honestly, I don't need gifts at all. A card with a personal message inside means more to me than almost anything else. I've never been a high maintenance gal, so spending money on me is a nonissue. Just remind me that I matter to you!

Sarah added a new Willow Tree figurine to my collection; Mark gave me the
eagle candle holder; the honey-bears snow globe is from my friend Debbie.

As always, my family came through. Sarah and Chris gave me a gorgeous new Willow Tree figurine for my collection. This one is called "Vigil." Mark wanted to get me something for my car, but when it turned out to be ridiculously expensive, he found the eagle candle holder instead. It's beautiful.

My boys were a little more challenged, but they got creative. Dylan and Jake presented me with a "coupon" (on a paper plate) promising me dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, Chalet. They have wonderful seafood, especially lobster and crab and my personal favorite, halibut.

Jacob followed suit with the paper plate "coupon," although I think it was more of a joke than a serious offer (which I believe was suggested to Jacob by his friend Antonio). Well, the joke's on him. I'll be back in Mesa at the end of this month to (hopefully) finalize the last big expenditures on the Mesa house. On the Tuesday night of the week I'm in town, I will present Jacob with the coupon and demand that he take me somewhere festive (but probably not his house)!

"Coupons" from my boys.

We wound up the evening with a raucous, hour-long game of IMAGINiff, in which we discovered that everyone believes Chris has "road rage," Dylan is "angry," and I look like "what the cat dragged in." Around 10:30, we called it quits and enjoyed our dessert of chocolate-chip cheesecake and homemade strawberry ice cream (both sugar-free, of course).

The cheesecake began to disappear quickly.

Mark, Dylan, and Jake had to work the next morning, but it was still after 11:00 when everyone finally headed home. Mark had already put himself to bed an hour and a half earlier.

Diego found a cup with a bit of homemade ice cream left inside,
and he made up his mind he was taking it home to snack on later!

Around 10:30 on Saturday morning, I had gotten a surprise phone call. My sister Karla, her husband Steve, and Karla's two youngest kids, Gabrielle and Addison, were actually on their way up the mountain from Mesa, planning to spend the three-day weekend in Snowflake (a small town about thirty minutes north of us). Friends of theirs had invited them to stay the weekend at their getaway place in Snowflake with them.

They'd already made plans for Saturday in the Snowflake area with their friends, but they wanted to get together with us on Sunday. It's not like I didn't have plenty of food in the house, so I gladly invited them to join us for Sunday dinner. How exciting to have more family in town for my birthday weekend!

Board games are serious business for Chris, Jake, and Dylan.

Meanwhile, on Sunday morning, Jacob made us a breakfast feast of scrambled eggs and diced chilies, bacon, and homemade hash browns. We didn't do much else that afternoon. I think we were all carb-crashed and tired of being so busy, although I did get Jacob, Chris, and Antonio to clean off my front porch. Jacob and Antonio also helped me hang a shelf in my bedroom that I'd been meaning to put up for more than a month.

Dylan, Antonio, and Jacob wait for their turn in IMAGINiff.

Sarah reads the scenario card while Chris chooses which vote to cast.

Karla's husband Steve had never been to this part of Arizona before, so he was dazzled by the  beauty of the forests and the Mogollon Rim and other features of the White Mountains as they drove up from Mesa on Saturday. Snowflake is a little less impressive scenically, being located in the windswept high desert, but as they drew closer to our area on Sunday the lush greenery began to surround them again. 

They stopped to visit our mom's grave in Show Low on their way to my house, and then Karla's crew arrived by around 4:00. It was so great to have them here! We enjoyed getting caught up, and then my dad and stepmom, Myron and Kathy, joined us. They'd been further up the mountain at Big Lake for a get-together with Kathy's family before coming to spend the rest of the evening with us.

Two pans of Sarah's Mexican chicken at left, two pans of green beans supreme
in the center, and an extra pan of Jacob's green-chili-chicken enchiladas at right.

I love being able to relax and visit when family comes to town. Usually, when you're the host, you're too busy to visit as much as you'd like, but I owe my daughter Sarah a huge debt of gratitude for completely preparing dinner for sixteen people without a bit of help from anyone, allowing me to focus on being with my dad and my sister's family.

Enjoying dinner: Kathy, Myron (my dad), Steve, and Karla (my sister).

It was a big job. She had already agreed to Jacob's request for her famous Mexican cream-cheese chicken casserole, so she made two big pans of that, along with reheating a third full pan of Jacob's green-chili-and-chicken enchiladas left over from the previous night. She also made two 8x8 pans of green beans supreme (with sour cream and cheddar) and a big pan of rice pilaf. (Later, I reheated the refried beans from Saturday, too.)

Karla's two youngest (of ten children), Gabby and Addison, with Chris.

I know Sarah doesn't care much for cooking; it's more Chris's thing. But she was totally un-frazzled as she moved quietly from task to task, enjoying listening to us talking and preparing each item on the menu. She did an awesome job and we all appreciated her so much! The food was both great and plentiful!

Addison, Gabby, Kylah, Elsie, Jacob, Chris, Dylan, Jake, and Antonio
after using up their energy playing Ghosts in the Graveyard after dark.

We were also blessed with a visit from my niece Elsie and her girlfriend, Kylah. That brought us up to a group of sixteen, which I love, love, love. I only wish my house were bigger to accommodate so much love!

A spookier version of the kids-in-the-dark photo.

After dinner, all the young'uns went out in the dark yard to play Ghosts in the Graveyard. From inside the kitchen, we could hear their shouting and their yelps as some ran into trees and other objects they couldn't see. It was fun to hear their good times, but we oldsters were happy not to be out in the midst of it. We recall those youthful games fondly, but we just aren't up to it anymore. Even the kids were commenting on how quickly they got tired, compared to when they were younger kids who could play for hours, often until after midnight!

Getting the fire pit lit up for s'mores.

Eventually, Dad and Kathy decided it was time to call it a night. Elsie, Kylah, Dylan, and Jake headed home since they had to work the next morning. Then Sarah insisted we needed to light up the fire pit and make s'mores, so the rest of us moved outdoors while Jacob and Antonio got the fire going. A few people opted to make homemade Blizzards instead, but we all got to enjoy the crispy night air and the warmth of the fire and an extended visit. It was 10:30 before the party finally broke up.

Visiting around the fire with Addison, Karla, Steve, Gabby, Chris, and Jacob.

We had such a wonderful day, filled with time spent enjoying the company of those we love, but the good times didn't end there! We were able to extend the family togetherness right up until dark on Labor Day. But the end of this tale will have to wait until another time...

And now, the "Before you leave..." pics: Addison, Karla, Steve, and Gabby.

Cousins Addison and Gabrielle with cousins Sarah and Jacob.

Jacob and Sarah with Aunt Karla and Uncle Steve.

Thursday, August 30, 2018

Red or Green

August 27, 2018: Our little apple tree is full of little apples.

As I've made clear over the years, I'm no farmer. My thumb is not green, but closer to a lifeless, crispy brown. I've never kept a houseplant alive and healthy for more than a few years, and that one time was something of a miracle.

Our apple tree is my outdoor miracle. When we moved here, I thought it was just an ugly little bush. I never gave it any attention or care of any kind. When it started growing through my chain link fence, I planned to have it ripped out. Then, six or seven years ago, when I found a bunch of apples laying around the tree, I thought someone was throwing apples in my yard. Why would someone do that, I demanded. Even then, it didn't occur to me that the tall, ugly bush was an actual apple tree!

Despite my years of neglect, the little tree survived. It had finally captured my attention. Noting how it still looked like a wild bush rather than a tree of any kind, late last fall I asked a neighbor to prune the tree for me. Prune her he did, deeply. He cut out more than half of her wood. It made me a bit nervous, so I've been watching the little tree's progress more closely than usual since spring, comparing its stages to that of other small trees throughout our neighborhood.

On August 9th, the apples were still very green.

The pink-and-white blossoms came later than everyone else's. The apples seemed to take longer to develop. They appeared to be substantially smaller. And, while everyone else's apples started blushing, mine remained stubbornly green. I was beginning to foresee a crop of tiny, sour-green apples.

When I mentioned my concerns to my kids, both Sarah and Dylan told me they were pretty sure they'd always been green apples, never red. No...really? No... Was dementia finally starting to set in? I had such clear memories of the red apples I thought had been thrown in my yard, of the pink blush starting to color the apples late each summer. Was I really losing it?

Thus, I was quite relieved when the reddish blush began to stain parts of the apples in my tree. Not only could I hope for sweet red apples, but I also knew I wasn't crazy after all!

A fine blush finally appears. We should have red apples by September!

My concerns aren't over yet. It looks like many of the apples have developed rough brown patches on the surface. After an internet search, I'm happy to report that it doesn't match the damage caused by any type of pest or disease. It appears to be something called "russeting," often caused by too much rainfall or late frosts in the spring, while the apples are developing.

Russeting may decrease an apple's shelf-life, but it doesn't affect its flavor or render it inedible. On occasion, I've seen and eaten apples with scaly scars similar to mine, and they were fine. They are ugly, though, and I'd like to know how to prevent them in the future. If anyone reading this is familiar with this problem, please advise!

Meanwhile, I'll be watching.

Blushing beauties, with a little russeting thrown in.

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

On Owens Pond

Aug 25, 2018: Kids from church have a great time at Owens Pond.

School started four weeks ago. A month from now, autumn will begin to set in and the leaves will start changing up their colors. Out-of-town visitors will flood our community for the annual Fall Festival at the end of September, hoping to see the changing of the leaves. 

Now was the right time for a late-summer outing, before colder weather moves in. Thus, the bishopric of our ward made plans for a church picnic at a popular recreational area located on property owned by one of the early settler families in our area, the Owens family.

Owens Pond is a popular spot for young people and families.

On Saturday, everyone from our church ward--young and old--was invited to join together for outdoor fun and delicious eats, and all ward members were encouraged to invite their friends and family to come celebrate with us. It was mostly the young, of course, who took advantage of the huge pond for swimming, kayaking, and other water games. Most of us oldsters were happier sitting in the pavilion and visiting, or playing horseshoes and cornhole (beanbag) games. Thankfully, the rain that had fallen all morning took a break while our picnic was going on.

Mark (blue shirt at right) stands at the top of a small ramp.

Since we shared the property with a herd of cattle, it was important to watch where you stepped. I warned Mark about the "cow pies" underfoot, and two minutes later he stepped in one. In flip-flops. He scraped it off in the grass the best he could, and then we hiked up to the pond to watch the fun for a while.

I turned away for a few minutes to capture kids swinging over the water.

While Mark stood at the top of a little water-ramp, surveying the scene, I wandered away to take pictures of other activities around us. When I returned, he was sitting on the dock next to the ramp, moaning. He told me, "I almost broke my neck." He explained that he'd taken a step down the ramp into the water, hoping to rinse off more of the cow-patty gunk, only to slip on the slick slime of algae on the concrete. His feet went up and he landed on his back. Not good, but at least he avoided a head injury or any breakage.

When I turned back, Mark was sitting on the dock, recovering from a fall.
He'd slipped on the slimy film covering the ramp and landed on his back!

After that, we wandered back over the hill to the pavilion, where we sampled delicious potluck foods and visited with great folks. The picnic was well-attended, with more than 100 people joining in by the end of the day. Our bishopric provided burgers and hot dogs with all the fixings, while volunteers brought the sides, like fresh watermelon, homegrown tomato wedges, baked and slow-cooker beans, potato salad, macaroni salad, two types of coleslaw, and a variety of chips and dips, as well as trays and trays of desserts. We were stuffed by the time the event ended three hours later.

It's always satisfying to spend time with our ward family, which I'm so happy to say now includes my daughter and son-in-law, Sarah and Chris, since they bought their house in our ward area. It's a good feeling to know there are so many people who love us and are there for us, whom we also love and care for. 

What better way to spend the dwindling days of summer!

Over the hill from the pond was our pavilion and picnic area.