Saturday, March 28, 2020

Chris's Birthday 2020

March 26, 2020: Chris with his birthday presents at his birthday party.

Today is my son-in-law Chris's 42nd birthday, and we got together for a little family party at my house on Thursday night to celebrate. With only Chris, Sarah, Dylan, Jake, Mark, and myself in attendance, we were safely within the government's no-gatherings-of-more-than-ten-people order to help slow the spread of the Covid-19 virus. What a strange time we live in!

Chris's birthday cake to celebrate his 42nd birthday.

The party started at 7:00. Sarah brought the cake and ice cream (rocky road and cookies-n-cream). After visiting a while, we started out with the opening of gifts. Sarah gave Chris a shirt and a $50 gift card to purchase the Star Wars-based video game he's been wanting to buy. I gave him another $20 to put toward the game. Dylan and Jake got him a 3-D standing puzzle of Olaf, the snowman from the film Frozen, one of Chris's favorite characters. And Mark gave Chris a model kit of a 1950 Chevy 3100 pickup.

Chris prepares to blow out his sparkler-candles after the Happy Birthday song.

Then it was time for ice cream and cake. I cheated on both, and I paid for it in hours of leg cramps later that night, which usually happens when I consume sugar. Why, oh why, don't I remember the painful consequences before I indulge?

We sang "Happy Birthday to You" in our comically (or tragically) mismatched, off-key voices, as always. When it came time to make a wish and blow out the candles, being mindful of the current coronavirus crisis, Chris tried to put out the candles by waving a napkin over them. Since Sarah had put sparkler-type candles on the cake, that effort was futile, so Chris quickly switched over to the traditional method of blowing out the candles with his own breath. That worked, but a couple of the candles reignited even then. One of them was particularly stubborn, even reigniting under Dylan's fingers as he pulled it off the cake!

In view of the current coronavirus pandemic, Chris tries to blow out his candles
by waving a napkin over them. He soon gave up and did it the old-fashioned way.

The party was fun, as it always is when our family gets together. We enjoyed the time we spent talking and teasing and laughing. And then it was time to call it a night. I waved good-bye from the front porch as my kids drove away to their own homes. Having them around makes me so happy, every time!
Happy Birthday, Chris!

Thursday, March 19, 2020

Gabby and JJ Tie the Knot

Gabby and JJ are radiant after their marriage and sealing in the Gilbert Temple.
March 6, 2020

Two of my nieces were married recently. In fact, their weddings were exactly thirteen days apart, which meant two trips to the Valley to celebrate with them. The second wedding took place on Friday, March 6th. The beautiful bride was my sister's daughter Gabrielle (Gabby), with JJ Elliott being the lucky man who gets to spend eternity with her (and vice versa, of course).

Unlike Emma's rainy wedding day two weeks earlier, Gabby's day was sunny.
However, it was very windy, which brought a whole new set of problems!

Despite the two weddings being held so few days apart, the weather couldn't have been any more different. Emma was married on a chilly February day with rain pouring down, which made the outdoor wedding photo-shoot a challenge. Gabby had a beautiful, clear, sunny day for her March wedding, except...it was quite windy, which posed its own brand of photographic turbulence. The bride's veil kept blowing off, and photo subjects with longer tresses often had to hold up the session to clear strands of hair from their eyes and mouths.

My sister Karla's two oldest grandchildren wait to open the temple doors for
the bride and groom, their Aunt Gabby and Uncle JJ. Both girls are 14 years old.
At left, Genevieve's daughter Brooke, and at right, Jeremy's daughter Analyce.

Regardless of the challenges, it was a lovely wedding, from the sweet temple ceremony uniting Gabby and JJ as husband and wife for eternity, to their getaway in a big truck at the end of the night. 

Steve and Karla fooled us by coming out ahead of the newlyweds!
That's not an angry face; Karla is mimicking our disappointed expressions.

At last, the happy couple comes out of the temple amidst joyful cheers.

Karla and husband Steve join the bride and groom with all 21 of Karla's grand-
children (Gabby's nieces & nephews). And there's at least one more on the way!

Like our brother Jeff, who has thirteen children, Karla also has a large family with her ten children. However, she wins the prize for the most grandchildren (so far): twenty-one of them, and more on the way! Altogether, it made for some very large group photographs.

JJ and Gabby with Gabby's mom Karla and step-dad Steve.

Gabby and JJ with JJ's mom.

Gabby with her mom, my little sister Karla.

The bride and groom with all of their bridesmaids and groomsmen.

The Brinkerhoff kids and their spouses: Addison (the youngest at age 15);
Jeremy and Cami; Scott and Genevieve; Bryce and Brianna; Gabby and JJ;
Mariah and Dallin; Elyssa and Ross; Celesta and Riley; and Julien.

Karla and Steve with the bride and groom and nine of Karla's ten children. 
Left to right: Jeremy, Addison, Genevieve, Brianna, Karla, Gabby and JJ,
Steve, Mariah, Elyssa, Celesta, and Julien. (Son Josh was unable to attend.)

Gabby gets lots of attention from her mom, sisters, and sister-in-law!

Gabby with all six of her sisters and her sister-in-law: Elyssa, sister-in-law Cami,
maid-of honor Addison, Gabby, Genevieve, Brianna, Mariah, and Celesta.

Gabby with two of her brothers, Julien and Jeremy.
Sadly, middle brother Joshua wasn't able to attend.

We managed to get some individual family group pictures between professional photos. This makes it easier to see which children (my grandnieces and grandnephews) belong to which parents among Karla's children!

#1 child Jeremy: In back are JJ and Gabby, Analyce, Cami, and Jeremy.
In front are Makayla, Braxton, Lexi, and Jaren.

#2 child Genevieve: Left-to-right are Genevieve, Brooke, Max, 
Gabby and JJ, Drew, Lila, Jaycee, and Scott.

#4 child Elyssa: Ross, Melanie, Gabby and JJ, Brydon, and Elyssa.

#5 child Celesta: JJ and Gabby with Riley, Levi, Celesta, and Lincoln.

#6 child Brianna: Jackson, Gabby holding Lydia, JJ, Carson,
Colton, Bryce, and Brianna.

#7 child Mariah: Dallin, Lucas, Oliver, Gabby and JJ, Mariah, and Hazel.

Sarah always seems to find a baby who needs cuddling! Lydia, in this case.

After we were done at the temple, we attended a wedding luncheon.

After all the picture-taking, it was approaching 1:30, so we headed over to a nearby church in Gilbert for the wedding luncheon, which was provided by JJ's side of the family. As soon as we walked in, we could see that everything was attractively set up and ready to go. I loved the table filled with welcoming signs for the newlyweds.

The luncheon was prepared by the groom's family, and it was wonderful.

The food was both plentiful and delicious, as evidenced by the picture of my full plate a little further down! The tables were decorated with springtime flowers in pastels (my favorites) and sprinkled with colorful chocolates. Not only did I weaken and enjoy one Kiss and one Reese's "egg," but I took a whole slice of Texas sheet cake, too!

The luncheon tables were decorated for springtime.

My lunch was this burrito and a side of Texas sheet cake.

We were able to help set up for the reception on Thursday, the day before.

Thanks to Sarah's and Mark's work schedules, we were able to drive down to Mesa the afternoon before the wedding, arriving a little after 5:30, which meant we were able to help get things set up for the reception. For me, that often includes filling in a little chalkboard (using permanent chalk) with information provided by Karla and the bride, meant to hang on a wall in the new couple's home. It's a tradition Karla started with the wedding of her third daughter, Celesta, several years ago. The finished product was displayed at the entrance to the reception (photo below). It's such an adorable way to capture courtship memories!

We were greeted by this photo when we entered the reception.

After enjoying the good food and visiting at the luncheon, Sarah and I stopped by Fry's to purchase our Renaissance Festival tickets for Saturday, and then we returned to Jacob's house to join him and Mark for a lunch of grilled cheese sandwiches and french fries. I believe Pippin Took calls that "second lunch." Sarah and I already had our wedding gifts prepared, so a little after 6:00 we headed back to the church in Mesa where the reception was to be held.

The guest book display...beautiful!

Courtship memories for the happy couple.

The  lovely wedding cake, of course!

I didn't get a good picture of the huge spread of good food that Karla always provides for her daughters' weddings, but it was as wonderful as always. Croissants stuffed with her special chicken salad, pasta salad with bacon crumbles, cut fruits and vegetables with dip, and both lemon water and lemonade. It's always great, and especially helpful for those of us who are far from home. So nice to have one less fast food meal!

Wedding presents begin to fill the gift table.

Karla displays her official mother-of-the-bride corsage.

The traditional tossing of the bouquet for the single gals.

The bouquet was captured by Gabby's cousin, Callie (Jeff's youngest).

JJ prepares to collect the garter from his new bride.

He has to go deep undercover to gather the evidence...

And then the garter flies through the air toward the single menfolk.

All of the fun, traditional wedding elements were observed throughout the evening; there were lots of enthusiastic dancers on the floor; it was great to be with family we don't see nearly as often as we should; we enjoyed an evening of laughter and hugs and getting caught up on each others' lives; and it was just an overall awesome day of celebrating the beginning of something beautiful and lasting.

In the end, Gabby and JJ made their getaway in their truck, while we all waved sparklers and cheered them on at the start of their lifelong adventure and eternal joy together. We wish them a lifetime of amazing memories!

Congratulations, Gabby and JJ!

The cutting of the cake.